The Magic of Costumes and Role Play
Written by M. Lyons, H&A Staff Writer
For most people, costumes are only a topic of discussion around Halloween. That one day of the year when we all go out to parties. We try to dress in the sexiest, cleverest, and sometimes daring outfits we could think of. We, and our friends, spend an entire evening having drinks, food and music while trying to figure out who each other are. Once we've done that the novelty wears off and we all go home and wait till next year, around Mid-September (or late October for some) to figure out what we plan to wear.
But honestly, have you taken a good look at what costumes could really do the rest of the year. They don't have to be collecting dust in the closet. They could be enhancing your sex life. Yes, costumes can do wonders for a love life. The imagination that goes into trying to design that perfect outfit, could also result in a wonderful trip into an area where pretending you are someone else could make sex more enjoyable.
Now how that works is easier than you think.
Imagine walking into your house and your partner is cleaning the mantle above the fireplace. You stop in your tracks to admire the short dress that barely covers her underwear, the feather tickler is going over the mantle, but no dust is being swiped. She turns to you, gives you a wink and proceeds to continue her cleaning. Could you imagine it? Now give your partner a french maid costume and you can make it a reality.
Picture yourself sitting at your home office desk typing some emails and getting the latest news information from your favorite website. Your girl comes in to inform you that she's ready to take dictation on the report you have to prepare by Friday. You realize that she isn't holding a pen and paper in her hand, but rather she unzips your pants to grab a hold of your "pen". The paper is nothing more than a book of kama sutra sexual positions that she felt would make things better. She rises (just like you do) and tells you that she's been thinking that she needs to get ahead in your company (and you can only think of what she means by that one). Like what you're picturing? Then pick up a secretary's outfit and make that dream come true.
Imagine sitting at your couch watching a hot movie when your girl puts a chair in front of you. You notice her outfit and are starting to feel a little tingly inside. She pretends to be writing in a notebook and occasionally looks over her shoulder to give you a very coyish smile. She returns to writing in her notebook when she accidentally drops her pencil. As she bends over to pick it up you get the greatest glance at her soft tanga panties. You're immediately taken back to your high school days when you saw that hot girl in your class that you just wanted to have. You then take your girl and proceed to give her a great amount of 'discipline'. Want to learn some more about this fantasy? Then you have to pick up a schoolgirl costume and let the imagination run wild.
How about one more? You're sick in bed. You have a slight fever and a cough. Suddenly your girl comes into the room. She's wearing the hottest nurses outfit you've ever seen. She tells you that she needs to take your temperature, but she can tell that you're really hot right now. She then rises up and says that she's feeling a little flushed and was wondering if you could take her temperature. Not so sure of what she means, she grabs your penis and -- well, grab a nurse's costume and finish this story!
Women, there's one for you too. You've always said your wanted an animal in bed. You just wished your man would be more aggressive, take more control, in essence -- get a little crazy. So when you come home one night you find your man sitting on a chair. He tells you that he's about to go crazy waiting for you to get home and that you should wrap him in a straight jacket, before he does something wild. You immediately put him in the jacket. He then looks into your eyes and tells you that since he's so bound, you most likely can do whatever you want to him, which you proceed to do. A straight jacket can be an erotic role play item as well.
While we're talking about role play. Let's look at a few other things you can consider doing to make yourself into a whole new person that your partner will love to ravage sexually. Imagine buying a nice lingerie set. Your partner comes home to find the room dimly lit and sexually charged music playing in the background. He looks to the living room and sees a dancing pole in the middle of the floor, next to that pole is a chair. You emerge from the bedroom wearing a hot lingerie outfit and you place him down in the chair (getting where this is going?). You then begin to do an erotic dance on the pole, touching yourself and teasing your partner. He then rises from the chair (in more ways than one) and proceeds to show you his pole. You then have one of the best sexual nights ever. Would you like to be a nurse that gives great oral examinations? How about a police officer who's good at the frisk and getting their man?
The possibilities are endless and costumes are one great step to embark on.
This article was written by a staffer, who really thought the best outfit a woman could wear is her birthday suit. But if she has to be dressed then these costumes are one of the best ways to go.
