Get Inspired with toys inspired by 50 Shades.
Inspired by the Fifty Shades Darker movie that came out on Valentine’s Day, many couples are thinking about getting a little kinky (or playing a little darker) in the bedroom these days.If you are curious about playing with some of the bondage toys inspired by the book and movies, here are some ideas of what to try, so you can live out your Ana and Christian fantasy.
First, you may be thinking this type of play is too extreme or scary.For some folks it may be, but for most people, bondage play is just another flavor to add to your sexual repertoire to keep things spicy in your relationship, as long as you do so safely and with consent from your partner.
To find out if Fifty
Shades of Play is right for you, answer these questions:
- Are you looking for new, fun, playful and naughty ways to spice up your existing sex life?
- Are you open to new kinds of sexual adventures?
- Do you want to find new ways to connect intimately with your partner?
- Do you and your partner trust each other?
- Do you have an interest in role-playing, or dominant and submissive play?
- Are you and/or your partner ready to lose control or take control in the bedroom?
- Do you like to experiment with different types of sex toys?
- Are you and/or your partner excited about the idea of bondage, or being tied up for sex?
- Are you and/or your partner interested in trying new sensations from erotic to pain/pleasure?
If you answered “YES!”, to most of those questions, then you are ready to embark on your Fifty Shades of Play erotic adventure.
Where to start with Fifty Shades of Play?
First you need to decide who will be dominant and who will be submissive.This usually comes naturally, as most people feel they are more one or the other, but you may like both and want to “switch”. Dominance and submission are a power play, an erotic dance between two partners where one guides the other, while the other surrenders to pleasure.
Set the Scene, the Fifty Shades Way
Next you need to decide what kind of scene you want to play.Sure, you can just play yourselves, but there are also many other scenarios you can try like: Boss and Secretary, Cop and Criminal, Pirate and Wench, Queen and Slave Boy, Teacher and Student and many more.
A great scene to try is the “job interview” type scene one partner plays Boss and puts the interviewee through a series of “tests” to see if they get the job.Pretty easy to set up, and you can play yourselves and just experiment and see where it goes.
Consent and Safe Words
Keep in mind before you play that both partners need to be on-board for the chosen activities.If you want to keep the activities a surprise, you can “interview” your playmate beforehand and ask them a series of questions about the type of play they like (called a BDSM questionnaire). This can also be a hot part of the scene itself!
Next, you will want to create a safe word that you both agree to beforehand that either partner can use to slow down (Yellow), or stop (RED) the scene at any time.This way you don’t go beyond anyone’s boundaries and you keep the play fun and safe.
Fifty Shades Darker Inspired Sex Toys
Since the books and movies have come out, so too have many 50 Shades inspired sex toys.Hear are a few of the most popular to get you started.
Fifty Shades Darker: Bondage
Blindfolds — Probably one of the most well know bondage type toys is a blindfold.These are used to dampen the sense of sight so the other senses: touch, hearing, taste and smell; are more turned on.
Cuffs — Handcuffs, and other types of restraints (rope, bondage kits, ankle cuffs) are used to restrain one partner so the other partner can tease and torture them with pleasure.This allows the restrained partner to surrender control to the dominant partner.
The Bordeaux Bondage Set comes with everything you need to get started, with 4 satin ties to bind wrists and ankles and a satin blindfold. This set was designed with beginners in mind giving them a comfortable and sexy way to engage in bedroom bondage play.
Fifty Shades Erotic: Sensation Play
On the books and the movies, Christian uses stimulating several devices on Ana to give her extreme pleasure and orgasm.
Vibrators — Vibrators are the ultimate clitoral play sex toys, as many women already know.Add a bit of bondage and that innocent looking toy can become a tease and torture device for forced orgasm play that will drive her wild! Check out our bestselling Thunderstruck Power Wand that is sure to get her squirming with pleasure.
Ben Wa Balls — Called “Goddess Balls” by Ana Steele, ben-wa balls bounce around inside her to stimulate her “Goddess” spot (or G-spot). The Black Marquis Ben Wa Balls are two weighted balls made of ABS plastic made to stimulate her deepest desires.
Anal Toys — Ana soon learned the pleasure of anal play under Christian’s tutelage. Butt plugs are a great way to get started into anal play, for easy anal insertion that stays in place while you stimulate other erogenous zones. The Apprentice Silicone 3 Piece Anal Trainer Set is the perfect anal plug set to grow with, featuring 3 plugs that gradually increase in size, in soft, yet flexible silicone material.
Nipple Clamps — Nipple play stimulates the same part of the brain that “lights up” when the genitals are stimulated.Thus nipple stimulation can go a long way in turned you on, either as a warm up, or if your lucky, as a nipple-gasm! Try these Vibrating Nipple Clamps for an extra boost of erotic stimulation during nipple play.
Fifty Shades More: Pleasure and Pain
Ticklers — Ticklers are a fun way to explore erotic sensation play, with your partner bound and blindfolded of course, to keep them in suspense. Le Plume Feather Tickler with awaken your partner’s erogenous zones, some of which they didn’t even know existed.
Crops — Crops can be nasty tools of punishment and should not be taken lightly—err, that is they should be used lightly, as a tool to gently swat your partner with on the bottom. But, don’t use it for beatings and always target the fleshiest part of your victim’s backside. Be sure to keep inside their limits of pain… and pleasure. The Leather Riding Crop can be nice and oh-so naughty, with springy shaft for more impact.
So, there are a few ways to get your Fifty Shades Darker on and start experimenting with some hot, adventurous play with your partner in the bedroom.Play safe and have fun!